LOCATION_DATA: AMSTERDAM, NL

Surviving the
Amsterdam Dating Scene

Local data confirms it: Dating in Amsterdam is different. From the going dutch (literally) to the direct difficulty setting.

DIFFICULTY LEVEL

Direct

GHOSTING RATE

20%

vs 52% Nat. Avg

MALE:FEMALE RATIO

0.98:1

AVG VCI SCORE

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6.8 / 10

The "Amsterdam Vibe" Deconstructed

If you feel like dating here is tall people, biking dates, pragmatic romance., you're not crazy. Our data analysis of thousands of profiles in the NL area shows a distinct pattern.

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The #1 Complaint

"Going Dutch (literally)" top the list of reasons why dates don't convert to relationships here.

2

The Competition

The average successful profile in Amsterdam has a VCI Score of 6.8. Is yours keeping up?

LOCAL INSIGHT

"In Amsterdam, if your first photo isn't a 9/10, you are invisible to 68% of users."

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