LOCATION_DATA: CHARLOTTE, NC

Surviving the
Charlotte Dating Scene

Local data confirms it: Dating in Charlotte is different. From the banker hours to the corporate difficulty setting.

DIFFICULTY LEVEL

Corporate

GHOSTING RATE

40%

vs 52% Nat. Avg

MALE:FEMALE RATIO

0.92:1

AVG VCI SCORE

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6.9 / 10

The "Charlotte Vibe" Deconstructed

If you feel like dating here is breweries, finance bros, clean but generic., you're not crazy. Our data analysis of thousands of profiles in the NC area shows a distinct pattern.

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The #1 Complaint

"Banker hours" top the list of reasons why dates don't convert to relationships here.

2

The Competition

The average successful profile in Charlotte has a VCI Score of 6.9. Is yours keeping up?

LOCAL INSIGHT

"In Charlotte, if your first photo isn't a 9/10, you are invisible to 64% of users."

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