LOCATION_DATA: NEW YORK, NY

Surviving the
New York Dating Scene

Local data confirms it: Dating in New York is different. From the everyone is casual to the extreme difficulty setting.

DIFFICULTY LEVEL

Extreme

GHOSTING RATE

78%

vs 52% Nat. Avg

MALE:FEMALE RATIO

0.91:1

AVG VCI SCORE

What's this?

6.8 / 10

The "New York Vibe" Deconstructed

If you feel like dating here is fast-paced, high standards, infinite options chaos., you're not crazy. Our data analysis of thousands of profiles in the NY area shows a distinct pattern.

1

The #1 Complaint

"Everyone is casual" top the list of reasons why dates don't convert to relationships here.

2

The Competition

The average successful profile in New York has a VCI Score of 6.8. Is yours keeping up?

LOCAL INSIGHT

"In New York, if your first photo isn't a 9/10, you are invisible to 68% of users."

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