LOCATION_DATA: TOKYO, JP

Surviving the
Tokyo Dating Scene

Local data confirms it: Dating in Tokyo is different. From the work-life balance to the reserved difficulty setting.

DIFFICULTY LEVEL

Reserved

GHOSTING RATE

25%

vs 52% Nat. Avg

MALE:FEMALE RATIO

1.01:1

AVG VCI SCORE

What's this?

6.6 / 10

The "Tokyo Vibe" Deconstructed

If you feel like dating here is polite, group dates (gokon), slow progression., you're not crazy. Our data analysis of thousands of profiles in the JP area shows a distinct pattern.

1

The #1 Complaint

"Work-life balance" top the list of reasons why dates don't convert to relationships here.

2

The Competition

The average successful profile in Tokyo has a VCI Score of 6.6. Is yours keeping up?

LOCAL INSIGHT

"In Tokyo, if your first photo isn't a 9/10, you are invisible to 45% of users."

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